Ok, flat hunting is completely over for the min hopefully!!

We have found somewhere lovely and all going to plan, the credit checks etc will go perfectly... fingers crossed...

Ian,
I will keep you advice in mind as a last resort... your comment made me smile though, which is a huge achievment! Thank you xx

I would like to hibernate from the world until we move but i dont think that is entirely possable! i will try though.

The now ex is being very well behaved though which is pleasant but i wasnt expecting it. I thought he would put up a huge fight, but no....